Sunday, June 17, 2007

Catching up.......

We continue to move forward, gearing up for the summer. Sherry will continue on with speech and vision therapy throughout the summer, but is taking a break from occupational and physical therapy for the a time. She will be re-evaluated later and if more therapy is needed, she will get it. In the mean time, we will make sure that she gets plenty of "therapy." She is spending more time in the pool here at the park where we live. We are going to look into a class at LCC in the fall that is designed for people who face the issues that Sherry faces, so we will keep her busy.

On Thursday we met with Jackie from the Oregon Commision for the Blind. She is an mobility therapist and will be working with Sherry for the forseeable future. She talked to Sherry about the three kinds of canes that visually impaired people often use. Sherry chose to try out the "support" cane. It is much like a regular can, although it does have the red tip to indicate that she is visually impaired. She will use it for support and to "poke and feel" as much as she needs to to better navigate and deal with thresholds such as curbs, steps etc. This is a big step for Sherry. She has been resistant to canes in the past. But I think she sees that they might make her more independant, and that is what she is all about.

Around the house she continues to expand that independence. She is participating more with day to day activities such as washing laundry, vacuuming, dishes etc. He occupational therapist wanted her to start putting shampoo on her hair by herself when taking a shower. She does so now without any trouble. She is beginning do more with preparing some meals although she stills needs assistance with this, but it is coming along. I have said all along that it takes small things piled on small things to get where we want to be. She is still adding to the list of small things she can do again. It just takes time and she has not shown signs of slowing down yet. She still has her goals and she is determined to get there. She is still my miracle in progress and I love and respect her so much. I am so proud of her and how far she has come.


We want to send our love and prayers to Sherry's mother Joy, who was involved in a pretty serious car accident last week. She appears to be alright with the exception of some hearing difficulty. The doctors think that it is the result of the loud noise of the airbag deploying and that it will hopefully resolve itself over some time.

Enough for now,

tomorrow we move forward....i love my wife,

Dean

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hello,

Time is going fast and contact seems to fade more and more. I am working on so much here and mom and the rest of the family really got me refocused. I know everyone stays busy there too. Nothing has been given and and everthing had to earn. The road to recovery is a long road. Mom, I know you've come a long way and the support I saw for you is fenominal!
Grandma Joy I hope you will be okay.
My two boys barely know who their relatives are and that's difficult for me to bare as their father. I moved to Illinios as a single person seeking better employement and I got lucky. I earned, but feel the distance between here and there. I have made decisions that have been for the right reasons but remain difficult to deal with. I am in Illinois and considering everything I've worked for, I feel stuck. I would like to get back closer to family it is cold and lonely being 2000 miles from those who truely care. I have worked for so much but feel I have little. I left thinking its not where you live it's how you live. I have lived good but there is no value to what is missed being distant from family. My workplace is moving to Dekalb and I will be driving 45 minutes to and from work shortly.
I've been given a challenging leadership opportunity to get 60000 rack labels applied for locations before August. I'm am a giver and find it difficult to ask for anything. My pride is my biggest weakness, but I do want ask for something...

I would like people to contact me! Mom and everyone else keep up the hard work.

Love Ya All!!!!!

Anonymous said...

I have really connected with this song so I figured I'd post the Lyrics. The song is "HOME" by Daughtry. Love YA!

I'm staring out into the night,
Trying to hide the pain.
I'm going to the place where love
And feeling good don't ever cost a thing.
And the pain you feel's a different kind of pain.

Well I'm going home,
Back to the place where I belong,
And where your love has always been enough for me.
I'm not running from.
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don't regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old,
So I'm going home.
Well I'm going home.

The miles are getting longer, it seems,
The closer I get to you.
I've not always been the best man or friend for you.
But your love, it makes true.
And I don't know why.
You always seem to give me another try.

So I'm going home,
Back to the place where I belong,
And where your love has always been enough for me.
I'm not running from.
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don't regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old,
So I'm going home.
I'm going home.

Be careful what you wish for,
'Cause you just might get it all.
You just might get it all,
And then some you don't want.
Be careful what you wish for,
'Cause you just might get it all.
You just might get it all, yeah.

Oh, well I'm going home,
Back to the place where I belong,
And where your love has always been enough for me.
I'm not running from.
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don't regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old.
I said these places and these faces are getting old,
So I'm going home.
I'm going home.

>>> I MISS YA <<<
Love, E & FAMILY

Anonymous said...

That is a good song Eric!
Miss you all!!